Koro's constant displeasure with Paikea seem to fuel her drive even more. This could be because Paikea was in her identity vs role confusion stage of Erikson's stage of development. She is trying hard to hold on to her roots despite being denied several times. In multiple occasion, she displayed talent, patience and understanding of her whole situation. It was probably because she felt a stable self-efficacy, believing in her competence enough to succeed. In a scene, she did not hesitate to jump into the depths of the ocean to retrieve the whales tooth which can only be explained that she knew she was confident enough to get the pendant (with an additional lobster!). On the other hand, Koro's self-efficacy was stable during the course of the lessons. He feels competent
and believes he can find the next leader within the first born boys of the
tribe, even seeing Hemi as a good potential, but declined as the last test of leadership was a failure. He turns depressed and calls for the ancient whales to guide him in his quest. From here, we can observe that the people of Maori believe in an outer force in shaping their destiny. In a way, we can say that they have an external locus of control. Especially when the beached whales turned up. Koro believed that they were a sign of a bad omen and maybe a sign of his failure.
A theme that I relate on a personal level is the struggle of being recognised as a successful female in the eyes of a male. Being in a Malay culture, it is similar yet not completely parallel to Paikea's situation. We are expected to be the supporter and not leader of the family. To understand and act our roles out as the females that take care of the family. Even outside of the family, men expect a certain kind of attitude and behaviour from girls. I admire people, girls and boys, that can stand out and proceed not to live the stereotype despite the backlash they receive. Leadership is an admirable trait that left me in constant awe throughout the whole film, especially more from a culture that I am new to. I find it surprising to see that even thought they are very rooted into their culture such as they speak the native language, follow through rituals and traditions and are close knit within the community. However, they are still modern enough to be able to adapt to the community outside their culture. By this, I mean in comparison to the Orang Asli that are living secluded from modern world. There is one Orang Asli community smack in the middle of the metropolitan Kuala Lumpur yet they do not adapt well ie choosing to still cook using actual fires rather than technology.
In conclusion, we should always try to give people a chance to prove themselves first before going with our preconceived notions regarding a matter. Sometimes it may surprise us and sometimes it will have us go through cognitive dissonance and deny any of it just like Koro did, but at least if we even consider to open up the possibility of something new, then it is a step towards a better and positive personal growth.
Reference:
Vugt, M. V., & Ronay, R. (2013). The evolutionary psychology of leadership: Theory, review, and roadmap. Organizational Psychology Review, 4(1), 74-95.
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